"Everything that happens to you in your teacher. The secret is to learn and sit at the feet of your own life and be taught by it."
Allowing yourself to forgive and let go of the pain, is allowing yourself to let go of the past and forgive everyone including ourselves. Carrying your anger towards another is like stabbing yourself over and over again and expecting the other person to feel the pain. In "The Course in Miracles" it says all disease comes from a state of unforgiveness, and that whenever we are ill we need to look around to see who it is that we need to forgive. Do not spend your entire life punishing yourself for acts that you either blamed yourself or others for. Forgive yourself, forgive them. No matter whether you have caused others pain or feel the pain that others have caused you, you are not there now, you are here. Everybody is doing the best they can with the thought process that they have in this current moment. This is why Jesus said "Forgive them father, for they know not." By recognizing that loving yourself is to forgive all including yourself. Holding on to trauma and painful hurt, and memories immediately triggers sad feelings within us and that is not being in alignment with our highest self which is joy, love, laughter and abundance. When we have painful experiences, whether they are physical or emotional they become stored not only into our subconscious but also into our muscles, our tissue and every fiber of our being. This is often why we develop pain in various parts of our body as they are holding the trauma that our emotional body is holding onto. When you work with various healers such as a kinesiologist they are able to work through each area of our body and see where the problem that your holding onto stemmed from. Often times it is linked to early childhood memories. We must eliminate old memories or feelings or even people that allow us to feel anything less than loved. So by you saying "I am forgiving them" you are ultimitely setting yourself free, and by no means are you saying "its okay what they did to me" but your acknowledge that you are holding onto any painful and toxic memories are not allowing good or better things to come into your life as long as your holding space for this anger inside yourself. I AM realeasing all painful memories in my life. I AM healing myself while forgiving others. Take a piece of paper and make two columns one is marked people who hurt me and the other is marked those I have hurt. List each persons name and what they did. List each persons name you have hurt and write down what they did to you. Next to each one that hurt you write, "I forgive you" and take a moment to see them before you and visualize forgiving them. Now, next to the ones you have hurt write: I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you, thank you. This is the Ho'oponopono Hawaiian prayer. Legend has it when a family member falls ill they ask who do you need to forgive? Now take the paper and roll it up and burn it and say to yourself all is forgiven. Take the ashes and either throw them to the wind or into a body of running water (toilet works well).
I AM allowing myself to forgive anyone who has ever hurt me. I AM allowing divine healing light through me. As I AM forgiving others I AM forgiving myself as well I AM releasing all past pain and hurt that others or myself may have caused. I AM letting go of any painful memories or feelings that no longer serve me. I AM one with the divine and the divine says forgive as they know not. I AM forgiving I AM forgived I AM only allowing people into my life that love, respect, and honor my divine self.
"Whosever shall not doubt in his heart, but shall believe that what he saith cometh to pass, he shall have it."
Whatever you were taught growing up about money if it was negative in anyway whether from your parents or your grandparents holding a limiting belief system or maybe you were raised in a poverty experience you no longer need to carry this you are always connected to source who is your provider of all prosperity and all that is. Old limited ways of thinking need to be realised in your subconious mind in order for you to attract abundance. There is an unlimited supply available to us always - we just need to be aware of it and allow it. Start the feeling of abundance by looking at what you have now, do you have running water? Electricity? A car? A roof over your head? Food to eat? If you have answered yes to any or all of these questions then start to feel rich. Start to say thank you for all of these blessings although they seem basic. It starts with gratitude, allowing yourself to be grateful for all the seemingly simple things that are already there and then expressing gratitude for that which isn't there but you want it to be. Saying thank you in advance for that which you desire but isn't there yet is one of the most powerful tools to bringing in anything in your life where there is lack. Allow yourself to feel worthy and deserving even if you were told differently. Whatever your relationship with money has been in the past whether it was your fathers or mothers belief system, you can start a new belief system. Listen to yourself when you think or speak about money, are your words positive or negative? Are you telling yourself that there is not enough or that its hard to make money? Or are you affirming that all your needs are being met with plenty to spare. Do not be jealous when you see others who are wealthy or living in abundance allow it to show you that prosperity is there and available to all of us. Bless them for showing you what prosperity looks and feels like. Dress in your nicest clothes so that you start to feel rich, serve your food on the prettiest plate and drink from your nicest stemware. Feel wealthy even when you know your reality is not. Its not about where you are in this moment, its about where you want to go. When you to start to feel abundant then you are able to attract abundance. As you go through your day, and you pass beautiful stores or restaurants tell yourself I'm buying that and I'm eating there later and play this game with yourself as much as you can. Be mindful of your thoughts and your words. Instead of saying "I will never get out of this debt, this economy is tanking" or "its so hard to make money" say instead whatever I touch prospers and succeeds. I AM a magnet to wealth and abundance, money flows easily and effortlessly. I AM financially abundant. Make your words a prophecy and know that they are creating the energy that is flowing to you. I AM abundant in every area of my life. I AM healthy, wealthy and wise. I AM connected to my unlimited source of abundance. I AM a good person and deserve my wealth and abundant future. Money flows easily and effortlessly to me. I AM grateful for all the good things I am able to do with money. Say these affirmations as many times as your can on a daily basis, write them down on index cards and carry them with you and repeat them whether your in your car, at a stoplight, waiting for a doctors appointment or have a few free moments at work. Do not talk about your financial woes it will only discourage you more and make the issue bigger, and giving it more life. Instead talk about the possibility of hope and that another great job will come. Say you will and you can, turn it around. Feel the difference when you speak about money in a positive way verses a negative way - how it is making you feel? When you feel yourself focusing on lack, divert your attention to feeling abundant. Speak of constantly that which you desire to be and not what you may be now and not waiting for it to show up. If your know, for example, your driving a beat up car and know that you need a new one but your only speaking of all the problems of the old car. Instead, feel the gratitude for having a car at all and then thank the universe for the new car that your desire. Picture the car that you want in your mind with as much detail as possible and see the dealership taking your old car and shaking hands as you take the keys to your new car. Feel that joy of happiness and excitement that comes along with having that new car and bless your old car for taking you places that you needed to go. Now your releasing it and allowing a new car to come in its space. Have unwavering faith that what you ask for, you will receive. How valuable is your time? instead of "saving money" by doing things yourself, know that your time is valuable and spend it wisely by doing what your good at and allow yourself to invest your money in hiring others to help you so that you can remain in your passion. Trust as your spending money whether its on your bills or fixing your home that this money will come back to you. Bless your car payment, say thank you as you buy groceries and other necessities, knowing and feeling gratitude that all of your are needs are being met.
I AM worthy and deserving of my wealthy future I AM a magnet to abundance, money flows easily and effortlessly to me I AM allowing money to flow to me I AM growing my business beyond my imagination I AM connected to divine source which is the true source of all my prosperity I AM grateful that all of my families needs are always being met I AM creating new sources of money I AM grateful I spend money in a positive way helping others I have a healthy relationship with money I AM abundant and prosperous in every area of my life