Do not lose yourself inside the story you're carrying. It is only in your mind, not in your soul. Do not lose yourself in what is happening in your outer world. Whether you lost your job, cannot pay bills, husband left, wife cheated, or you were diagnosed with a life-threatening illness, we are often not able to understand these changes. If we surrender and believe that even though this may not be what we want in this moment we will realize that change is taking us to a greater place. Often times change happens when we remain stuck in a place we are no longer meant to be. The Universe will rock our world by taking away something and forcing us to face life without it. Almost all change comes with fear. How will I go on? Will I live? Can I do it? With loss comes new beginnings. What if that spouse leaving you led you to a new love that is 100x better? What if the cancer diagnosis leads you to complete health and spiritual overhaul. You start juicing and change your whole way of eating and connect to the divine for a healing miracle. In the end you not only survive but say it was a blessing and I am a better person now. That job you got fired from led you to opening up your own business and created financial and creative freedom for yourself. What follows all of this you ask? HOPE. Because now where you once were only focused on what was lost, you now can become aware of the blessings in disguise and see things from a different perspective. Feel the happy emotion that comes with hope. The despair and sadness that you felt before can slowly start to melt away. You start to realize you are no longer afraid of being alone, or of finding a new job or whatever your fear is. Your ability to be happy to feel love is not attached to this one person, place or thing. We are bringing new ideas and situations into our reality all the time. So when challenges/change come your way you know how you respond to it will make all the difference in the world. Know that you can and will make it through this. Remember the place from which you are observing determines what you see. Do not try to analyze or make sense of why this change has happened. Move forward and find the blessing in it. Changing your perspective will change the story and give it a more positive, blessed ending. Embrace change. Believe that it is carrying you to unforeseen happiness. How you choose to experience change will be your greatest challenge. Start by losing fear and accepting, yes, you are in change. Start now by writing down the situation at hand and your fear attached to it. Example, my husband left me. Fear: I will never find a love like this again. Blessing - even though my husband left me I know one day that I will find love again and it will be even greater than anything I have ever had before. A positive outcome to this seemingly negative situation is merely in our mind. Change your thoughts, change your life.
I AM Fearless and optimistic
I AM Embracing change
I AM Moving through changes in an easy and effortless way